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Style Diaries | Feeling Confident In Your Own Skin


Everyday I see inspirational quotes, pictures and general approval that woman should love their bodies, embrace their curves, be proud of their stretch-marks and feel confident in their own skin. 

This is all great, apart from the fact that I don’t believe any of it. I don’t believe people when they say that bodies are beautiful no matter their shape or size. I don’t trust quotes that tell me that I should love the way I am and feel confident about myself. It’s not that I don’t agree with these statements, it’s that I don’t feel that our society wants us to agree with them. 


For every inspirational quote about loving my body, I see ten more pictures showing me that I am inferior as a woman. That I’m not pretty enough, not skinny enough, not tall enough… I don’t mean to stereotype, and I don’t have anything against tall, pretty, skinny, women – it’s just that I can’t help but feel as though we are supposed to aspire to be this way.   

But do ya know what? We should embrace our bodies, and not give a shit about how other people may perceive us. As long as we are healthy, eat good food, exercise regularly, drink plenty of water, get enough sleep and take care of our bodies, do little hang ups like cellulite even matter? So many people have things that they don’t like about their bodies and in all honesty – no one even notices or pays attention!

So when it comes to stretch marks, wobbly thighs, big boobs or whatever it is that you feel self conscious about, try to remember that nearly all other woman have similar, if not the same thoughts about themselves. We need to remember that our bodies are real and that we are all natural and normal – but as long as we’re healthy, it really does not matter! 

I think that we also need to remember that no matter our body hang ups, there are always solutions to help us to feel more confident in our own skin. Personally, I get very self-conscious about my rather large lady lumps. I have quite a big set of boobs, which I feel are out of proportion to my 5ft2 frame. I forever feel like they’re on display and that they make me look bigger than I am, that my clothes don’t fit the way I want them to… and when I was younger I was forever trying to hide them. 


With age however, I think we forever apply a fresh perspective on things, and I have learnt to embrace my body. I’ve learnt that wearing a good bra is one thing that can make me feel more confident about my boobs and myself. I have recently been introduce to a brand called Upbra, a company that is based in the USA and has spent the last five years designing a bra with the perfect fit and lift. They have a huge range of bras available, all of which include adjustable straps underneath the cups, allowing you to push your breasts together to ensure a secure and flattering lift. The California brand ship worldwide, and if you too are in need of a little confidence boost I would really recommend checking them out. 

Ultimately though, no matter how we feel about the exterior of our bodies, we need to nurture and look after our insides. Ensuring that we are healthy is a number one priority, and once we do this, the rest will follow. It’s so easy to get hung up on what we feel we should look like, but we must try and focus on the positives and the things that we can change like diet and lifestyle choices. But forget the rest because in reality, it really doesn’t matter… 


Madolyn
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